Workplace Family and Domestic Violence Support: A Guide for Small Businesses
According to the Australian Bureau of Statistics, it has been estimated that approximately “41% of Australians have experienced violence since the age of 15, including 31% of women and 42% of men who have experienced physical violence, and 22% of women and 6.1% of men who have experienced sexual violence” (Personal Safety, Australia, 2021-22 financial year | Australian Bureau of Statistics). These are staggering and sobering statistics.
For most people experiencing family and domestic violence, the workplace represents a sanctuary - a space of safety, purpose, and economic stability. Yet this sanctuary can be compromised without proper workplace family and domestic violence support systems. As a small business employer, your response isn't just about being compassionate — it's critical for both employee wellbeing and organisational health and stability.
What Is Family and Domestic Violence
Family and domestic violence operates as an intricate ecosystem of controlling behaviours, manifesting in various forms:
Physical violence: Hurting, restraining, sleep deprivation, property damage
Emotional coercion: Creating fear, name-calling, "gaslighting," systematic control
Financial control: Restricting access to resources, monitoring spending
Social isolation: Severing connections to support networks, stalking
Technological abuse: Digital harassment, monitoring communication
Cultural sabotage: Undermining religious practices or cultural identity
Recognising Domestic Violence Signs at Work
Like ripples in water, family and domestic violence can create visible patterns in employee workplace behaviour. Recognising the potential signs at work requires attentiveness from managers and leaders to:
Unexplained absences or chronic lateness
Sudden productivity decline
Physical injuries without clear explanation
Withdrawal from workplace relationships
Anxiety, distraction, or emotional volatility
Distressing personal communications during work hours
These indicators are certainly not definitive proof of family or domestic violence. However, they certainly warrant compassionate, careful attention — not judgment or hasty conclusions.
Fair Work Family and Domestic Violence Obligations
Understanding your Fair Work family and domestic violence obligations creates the foundation for meaningful support. Under Australian legislation:
Eligible employees can access up to 10 days of paid family and domestic violence leave annually. This entitlement extends to full-time, part-time, and casual employees
Employees may request flexible working arrangements
Employers must maintain strict confidentiality, including specific pay slip protocols
Businesses have a duty of care regarding workplace safety
These aren't just compliance requirements — they're essential tools for supporting vulnerable team members.
Supporting Employees Through Family and Domestic Violence: A Framework
1. Create Safety Nets
Prepare your organisational ecosystem before crisis strikes:
Develop a small business family and domestic violence policy
Establish safety protocols and response procedures, such as implementing a safety plan template
Create confidential, accessible communication channels for raising concerns
Build connections with external support services, such as EAP providers
2. Initiate Empathetic Dialogue
When concerns arise, approach conversations with compassion:
Secure a private, confidential space for discussion
Use open-ended questions: "I've noticed some changes lately. How are things going?"
Practice active listening without judgment or advice-giving
Respect autonomy - let employees guide the conversation and next steps
3. Implement Practical Support Mechanisms
Translate policy into meaningful action:
Clearly explain family and domestic violence leave entitlements and flexible arrangements
Develop individualised workplace safety plans
Facilitate connections to specialised external services, such as support helplines and EAP providers
Maintain rigorous confidentiality protocols
Establish appropriate follow-up processes
Crafting an Effective Family and Domestic Violence Policy
Your family and domestic violence policy serves as your organisation's compass when navigating these complex situations. Essential elements include:
Clear definitions and recognition of various violence forms
Guidance for managers on identifying signs and initiating support
Detailed leave entitlements and approval processes
Confidentiality safeguards and limitations
Risk assessment procedures and safety planning templates
Comprehensive resource lists and support pathways
The Business Case for Workplace Family and Domestic Violence Support
Implementing robust support frameworks delivers tangible organisational benefits:
Enhanced productivity and engagement
Reduced absenteeism and turnover costs
Reduce legal risks
Strengthened workplace culture and reputation
Improved organisational resilience
Your Role in Creating Safer Workplaces
Family and domestic violence represents a societal challenge where employers hold unique power to interrupt cycles of harm. By implementing workplace support, you're not just meeting compliance requirements — you're creating a genuine sanctuary where employees can maintain dignity, economic security, and pathways to safety.
Remember: Your informed response may represent the critical difference between someone remaining trapped in danger or accessing life-changing support.
Further Support Services
Emergency assistance: Call 000 for immediate danger
1800RESPECT: 1800 737 732 or 1800RESPECT.org.au - National domestic violence counselling service
MensLine Australia: 1300 78 99 78 - Support for men with family concerns
Fair Work: Family and domestic violence leave - Fair Work Ombudsman